All right, have you ever asked yourself what you want and realized that you're not even sure?

This is something that came up a lot last week when I taught the Happy Feminist Challenge live.

Such an amazing challenge.

If we do it again, you absolutely need to join it

because the breakthroughs were fast and furious,

and it was such a life-changing five days together.

But one of the things that came up a lot was

when we were talking about big picture happiness and how to know if you're living the

life that you really want to be living that life that you won't regret when you die,

that life that is really based on your unique kind of desires and dreams and contributions.

One of the things that came up was that a lot of women in the

challenge felt like they didn't even know what they wanted and that's very common.

We're literally socialized as women to believe that we don't know what we want and we can't trust ourselves.

So I thought this would be an amazing time because whether you were in the challenge or you just

have been listening to the episodes about happiness, this might have been coming up for you.

So this is an amazing time to share one of our greatest hits on the podcast, which is an episode

all about how to know what you want.

So that is what I'm going to invite you to listen or re-listen to today. For sure, even if you've already heard this

episode once years ago when it first came out, you're going to want to re-listen because you will hear and learn things differently based on where your brain is now than you did before.

One of my favorite episodes, a real gem, and such an important topic, especially for people socialized as women.

Because if you tell yourself you don't know what you want,

that is a dream killer and a kind of life deadener right there.

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