#347: How to Regulate Your Emotions, Anna Runkle - The Crappy Childhood Fairy
The Gabby Reece Show
Dear Media
4.8 • 954 Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2025
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Gabby Reece sits down with Anna Runkle, known online as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, to discuss her new book, 'Connectability'. Anna shares her personal journey of overcoming the long-term effects of growing up in a chaotic home filled with unpredictability, alcoholism, trauma and neglect. She emphasizes the importance of self-regulation, rebuilding trust and fostering meaningful connections with yourself and others. In addition, she sheds light on her own experience in therapy and the epiphany that changed her life and led her to the work she currently does. Though she admits therapy can be helpful for many, she brings up the idea that repetition and rumination weren’t helping her move forward.
Anna describes effective techniques such as written prayer and meditation practices that have helped her and millions of others around the world. The episode also touches on healthy relationships, practical strategies for personal growth and Anna’s unique, hands-on approach to healing childhood trauma.
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CHAPTERS
- 00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles
- 00:32 Guest Introduction and Book Discussion
- 02:51 Anna Runkel's Background and Childhood
- 04:42 Coping Mechanisms and Personal Growth
- 09:19 Understanding Trauma and Therapy
- 25:36 Parenting and Personal Practices
- 30:02 Techniques for Healing and Relationships
- 39:13 The Impact of Early Attachment in Relationships
- 40:41 The Importance of Letting Men Take the Lead
- 41:04 Personal Experience with Relationship Dynamics
- 41:53 Introduction to Superpower Health Service
- 44:33 Navigating Personal Conflicts and Self-Regulation
- 47:54 Effective Communication and Setting Boundaries
- 57:43 The Role of Self-Care and Meditation
- 01:10:09 Final Thoughts and Resources
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| 0:00.0 | When you say you got really dysregulated, how does that show up? In this one week period, my mother died and I was beaten unconscious on the street. And I just lost it. We're not really set up to be happy. We're set up to survive. I reached a point where I knew that I had no idea what to do. Because you felt like you knew better, you have the skills and you blew it. I'm the crappy childhood fairy. |
| 0:20.9 | I'm supposed to know. In your latest book, Connectability, you talk about how to speak in a way that you're heard. All it was was a piece of paper and a pen. And it was basically a written prayer. When that happened, everybody could see the difference in me. Hi, everyone. Welcome to the show. So today I'm going to be sitting down with Anna Runkle. And you might know her online, |
| 0:38.7 | I love this, as the crappy childhood fairy, to talk about her new book, Connectability. So Anna has |
| 0:45.0 | helped millions of people around the world heal from long-term effects of growing up |
| 0:50.0 | and maybe a chaotic home or trauma using tools that are both practical and deeply personal. |
| 0:55.9 | Her work focuses on regulating the nervous system, rebuilding trust with yourself, and learning |
| 1:01.5 | how to truly connect, not just with others, but within your own life. |
| 1:05.9 | So if you've ever felt stuck in old patterns, I know I certainly have, or wanted a way to |
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