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Hey everyone, so the topic of this episode is how many chances.

A lot of you may currently be experiencing or you may have already experienced the

kerosal relationship where you keep getting back together with

someone over and over and over again and I call it the carousel relationship

because you keep coming back for more like it's your favorite ride at the amusement park.

But you're really just going in circles.

In one day, out the next, on repeat.

Sure, let's get on this horse again and again to see if things will suddenly be different this time around.

But you know what, a carousel, you get on, it's the same ride over and over, you go in circles, then you get off, then you get on again, you go on circles, then you get off.

And I'll just quickly interject with the definition of insanity.

Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

So I want to make it clear though that I'm not talking about minor spats or when you may have different outlooks on fundamental issues that you have to iron out.

No relationship is perfect. And you have to be able to have constructive discussions obviously, and they may even rise to the level of argument sometimes.

You can't expect things to be all sunshine and rainbows 100% of the time.

What I'm talking about is when the relationship starts robbing you of your joy.

You know, when you don't even want to tell people that you broke up again or that you got back together again, there comes a point where you have to start asking yourself, how many chances am I going to give this

relationship or how many chances am I going to give this person who has

disrespected me, cheated on me, lied to me, or who doesn't even bring out the best in me.

And I really want to stress this next point.

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