#35: Choose People Who Choose You for Healthy Relationships
Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak
Trina Leckie
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 27 April 2017
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
The topic of this episode is "choose people who choose you". When it comes to dating and relationships, it seems like it would be extremely obvious - to choose someone who actually chooses to be with you too.
If the person you are interested in doesn't choose you, the smart solution should be to accept it and move on. However, that's not always the case and results in tons of broken hearts walking around aimlessly… feeling lost, depressed, and like there is no one else in the world they can be with or would ever want to be with. They try absolutely everything and anything to get this person to be with them.
I'm hoping this episode can give you a fresh perspective on why you should only choose people who choose you. xo
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| 0:00.0 | Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else. |
| 0:07.0 | Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle. |
| 0:14.4 | She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life. |
| 0:17.8 | Hey guys, so I was so sick and then I lost my voice on top of it. So basically I could have been mistaken for Kermit the Frog's female cousin. |
| 0:29.0 | So that's why I've been a little MIA missing in action, but I'm back now with an all new episode and the topic |
| 0:35.3 | of this episode is choose people who choose you. |
| 0:40.9 | So let's just get right into this. Okay, so when it comes to dating and relationships, it seems like this would be an extremely obvious thing to choose someone who actually chooses to be with you too. |
| 0:52.0 | If the person you are interested in... someone who actually chooses to be with you too. |
| 0:53.0 | If the person you are interested in doesn't choose you, |
| 0:56.5 | the smart solution should then be to accept it and move on, right? |
| 1:02.0 | And imagine this for a minute, like literally just sit there and think for a minute how much easier what I'm about to say would make your life. |
| 1:11.0 | To only be into those people who are also into you. |
| 1:17.0 | Okay? |
| 1:18.0 | Those who also feel as though they do not want to even fathom life without you. Those who do not have to |
| 1:26.9 | chase or practically beg them to be with you like a dog wanting a treat. And how much happier would that make both parties involved |
| 1:35.0 | if you're with someone who wants to be with you |
| 1:38.0 | just as much as you want to be with them? |
| 1:40.0 | However, it's not always the case, and it results in tons of broken hearts walking around |
| 1:47.0 | aimlessly, feeling lost, depressed, and like there's no one else in the world they can be with or whatever want to be with. |
| 1:55.0 | They try absolutely everything and anything to get this person to be with them. |
| 2:01.0 | And I have to say that, you know, saying something like, I'm not going to give up on them, you know, it can sound like a fairy tale or a noble thing to say. |
| 2:08.0 | But at the same time, what are you fighting for when you were the only person fighting? |
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