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Hey guys so I was thinking today know, life is just so funny. You think you know everything

until you realize that you still have so much to learn. And what you value when you're younger in terms of relationships changes and

evolves so much as you get older. When you're younger, it's so easy to put all the emphasis on attraction and having fun

together but what I've learned the older I've gotten is this the most important thing

for a successful relationship is sharing the same mentality.

Mentality is how you think, your mental attitude that determines how you will interpret and respond to situations.

Your mindset, your outlook, your beliefs, your feelings, and your values.

It's a crucial part of compatibility.

I would personally consider not having the same mentality a dealbreaker. And no this does not mean that you

need to be carbon copies of one another, nor does it mean that you need to like exactly

the same things. I think the best way to explain it is to say

that you feel as though you're on the same page with someone. The same mentality

is what makes people click and mesh.

And chemistry also makes people click, but mentality is just so much deeper than that.

When you share the same mentality, in so much deeper than that.

When you share the same mentality, it helps you overcome conflict.

It helps you formulate strong bonds.

It generates mutual respect. It injects confidence into your relationship.

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