My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there.

Just to bring it out. This is what

compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black

Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma

and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

others. Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-work. I'm Sheena Lachay, love addiction coach and trauma specialist.

Let's begin. You're too pretty for him. You got in this relationship thinking that would be

something that it's not. You spend every day feeling overwhelmed, drained, drained, unappreciated.

You see the potential of who this person could be, of what the relationship could be, but it's

not cracking out the way that you wanted to. When other people see the relationship and when

other people see you in it, they wonder

why you're there, which makes you feel a little bit defensive, but it's because they see something

that you don't. You are too pretty for him. And when I say too pretty, it means that you are

so amazing. There's something in you that you don't see that you think other people are just

exaggerating, but it's real. And so today we're

going to talk about three ways that you are undervaluing yourself. So you can determine if you're in a

relationship where those underlying nagging feelings are actually valid and also give you some

direction on new thoughts for you to adopt to help you believe better for yourself in this process. So

the first sign that you may be too pretty

firm is that you are out of his league. And that's usually fine, but that's when they are treating

you like the queen that you are. It's when they are going out of their way to make your life better.

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