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The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

3 Things You Need to Stop NOW! | Mindset Monday

The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

Tom Ferry

Self-improvement, Business, Education

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 23 March 2026

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

There are three things killing your happiness and success. You probably do them every day, but if you stop them now, I promise that everything in your life will improve. Give it a shot now.  Need help getting your mind & business in check? Schedule a free business strategy session and learn how to take real control of your life: https://www.tomferry.com/real-estate-coaching-programs/

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0:00.0

There's three things that are killing your joy, your happiness, your success, your

0:03.8

abundance, your love, your ecstasy, all the things that we deserve as human beings, and

0:08.4

you know what they are.

0:09.7

It's complaining, it's comparison, and it's criticism.

0:13.6

Complaining, comparison, and criticism.

0:16.3

Show me a person that's always in complaint, and I will show you a person that doesn't

0:20.3

have joy,

0:21.4

ecstasy, fun, abundance, a life worth living. Show me a person that's always comparing

0:26.8

themselves to everybody else because it always leads back to one thing, I'm not enough,

0:31.3

I'm not smart enough, I'm not the best, look at how handsome he is, look how great she is.

0:35.9

If you're constantly comparing yourself to

0:37.6

everybody else, it's a lose, lose scenario versus what can I do today to be the best

0:42.1

version of me, right? What can I do today to be the best version of myself today? That's a way

0:47.7

better strategy. But the last one, you want to talk about a way to kill a relationship, kill

0:52.8

yourself, kill your business, is to constantly just be in a state of criticism, that you're just nitpicking at everything that's wrong. I don't like what Zillow's doing, and I don't like what this person's doing, and I can't believe that person sleeps with all their clients and that's how they get all their business, right? Like, this, this, this argument for constantly picking things apart, we know what it is.

1:12.4

It's just, it's just your own insecurities.

1:14.5

It's the way that you say, this is how I could feel better about myself by like basically

1:18.1

trying to trash everything else.

1:20.0

So I'm just asking you, maybe just for this Monday, if you want more joy, if you want

1:24.7

more happiness, if you want more success, if you want more abundance, if you want more of everything that life offers us, get rid of the comparison, get rid of

1:32.6

the complaining, get rid of the criticism just for one week. And then let me know what happens.

1:37.6

Send me a DM and tell me you got rid of the three Cs and what happened.

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