297. HEAD NOISE: A Not-So-Ex-Wife, Texting Boundaries and Anxious Attachments
Do You F*cking Mind?
LiSTNR
5 • 862 Ratings
🗓️ 1 February 2024
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
FOR 2024 I'm rebranding the Listener Question segment of the pod to be HEAD NOISE! Same content idea but with a new name.
SO – in this first episode of Head Noise for 2024 I’m answering these three questions
- 1) Should I contact the ex-wife of a man who I was seeing but then suddenly ghosted be after he found out his ex-wife knew we were seeing each other.
- 2) I text my new partner all the time, at least daily, but they don’t reply to me very often. After listening to your episode with Sabrina Zohar I've been reflecting that maybe I’m anxiously attached. My partner says that I am overreacting by explaining that I’m not feeling like a priority when they take ages to reply to me or don’t incorporate me into their plans. How do I communicate to my partner that this is important to me, or am I letting him railroad me and it’s part of a bigger picture?
- 3) My anxious attachment style is getting in the way of my relationship with my introverted partner. I’m feeling like a burden because of my hyper fixation on his feeling and me being so hypervigilant and afraid of being abandoned by him. What can I do?
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Host: Alexis Fernandez
Executive Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper
Digital Producer: Zoe Panaretos
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Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh
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| 0:00.0 | A Listener Production |
| 0:03.9 | Please leave your message after the tone |
| 0:07.3 | Why am I jealous of my ex? |
| 0:09.7 | I am so stressed all the time |
| 0:11.7 | How do I get into a routine? |
| 0:13.3 | Is TikTok making me anxious? |
| 0:15.2 | I think I'm being manipulated. |
| 0:17.0 | Someone told me you could live with half a brain. |
| 0:19.4 | This is Do You Fucking Mind, Mindset Hacks for a Badass Life? |
| 0:23.3 | Hosted by me, Alexis Fernandez. |
| 0:25.7 | Hello, everyone, and welcome to the episode of today. |
| 0:29.7 | So today is a Friday episode, so we are doing a listener question episode. |
| 0:35.2 | So these episodes are now going to be called head noise because I think that |
| 0:39.4 | a lot of the times where people send in questions, it's something that they've been, it's been |
| 0:45.1 | brewing in their mind for a long time. It ends up being like this head noise and someone actually |
| 0:50.7 | mentioned it to me. They were mentioning the idea of head noise |
| 0:56.2 | to me. And I'm like, that's exactly what my listener questions are. And it's something I can relate |
| 1:00.0 | to it, something we can all relate to. So welcome to your first head noise segment. I've got three |
| 1:07.1 | submissions that you guys have sent in. This is also, sometimes I'm going to do more than |
| 1:13.3 | three. These are just slightly longer they dive in. It's, I believe, to be super relatable topics. |
| 1:19.3 | And the reason I say it's super relatable is because I have received so many DMs and so many |
| 1:24.1 | emails that kind of circle around these themes. So I think that the advice that I |
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