My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there is to bring it out. This is what

compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black

Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma and building a

healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

others. Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-work. I'm Sheena Lachay, love addiction coach and trauma specialist.

Let's begin.

Hello, hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heal.

I am overjoyed to be with you again this week for this week's podcast episode.

So this episode is audio only again.

Today I'm giving you a sneak preview into my new book,

How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts, how to assess for family, friends, and lovers who are available for love or partners who are available for love. And I cannot wait to read

you these passages to hook y'all up with the info. I could not for the life of me figure out a

very cool like split screen where you could see the text and also see me. And I've been fumbling

with it. And I don't know if this is just an extended mercury retrograde kind of thing.

Like I'm even looking at the audio level thing on the app that I'm recording on

and is giving me bars that are very, very small.

So I'm going to boost up this audio so that hopefully you can hear because I know that

there was a point like a year or so ago

where the audio is coming out really low. I know my sound editor is going to edit it. Shout out to

you, Jell. I love you, girl. But this episode is already late. So I'm going to go ahead and

upload it. So anyways, y'all, all that to say, this is an audio-only episode for this week.

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