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🗓️ 16 July 2024
⏱️ 33 minutes
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In this episode of the Black Girls Heal podcast, I talk about the power of "no contact" as a tool to finally break free from toxic relationships.
You know how it goes – you finally decide to walk away, but somehow, you end up back in contact with that person who just brings you down. It's frustrating, right? Well, here's the thing: most setbacks in our healing journeys happen because we keep connections with folks who are bad for us.
In the episode, I'll walk you through four key steps to make no-contact work. We'll talk about the withdrawal symptoms you might experience, both physical and emotional (because yes, this can be a rollercoaster!). I'll also share tips on setting intentions for your no-contact period and how to cut off those lingering fantasies that hold you back.
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0:00.0 | My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there is just to bring it out. |
0:21.0 | This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever |
0:26.4 | means necessary. |
0:29.4 | Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders, |
0:34.3 | unresolved trauma, and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves, and then |
0:38.6 | others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and |
0:44.8 | grow in yourself work. I'm Sheena Lache, Love Edition coach and trauma specialist. |
0:50.3 | Let's begin. |
0:52.3 | Hello, hello! Let's begin. |
0:58.0 | Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. Today we are talking about no contact. |
1:02.0 | We are continuing talking about the importance of separating from |
1:06.2 | toxic relationships and having a clean break. We are focusing on this |
1:11.3 | because for many of us we have been trying to |
1:14.4 | tiptoe the line of doing our healing process and we keep having setbacks so we wonder |
1:19.4 | what's going on. We wonder if we're doing something wrong, if maybe we're just not evolved enough, and what it is is that we have people in our lives, that we need to have a break from, that we need to have a reset from, that we keep trying to entertain. And many of you already know that when I talk about no contact, I am talking about a full no contact blocking and all that stuff which I'm going to talk about in a moment. And so there may be people in your life |
1:44.0 | that you know that the relationship, the way that it's set up, |
1:47.0 | it is not helping you. |
1:49.0 | It's hurting you more than not. |
1:50.0 | But it's also a relationship that you are not ready |
1:52.0 | to actually say goodbye to you and you don't want to. |
1:55.6 | That is not in your vino card for this year and it is not even the best of circumstances |
2:00.2 | something that you would want. |
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