Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

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you are meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

All right welcome to episode 249 hello my friend welcome to a new episode of new mindset who this and thank you for listening.

Thank you for supporting me as always and I'll just hop right into it straight into the episode shorter episode probably but really simple thought here and it's something that I think will be helpful for you.

It'll certainly be helpful for me because this is something I think we all suffer from what I'm about to talk about and spoiler it's in a title the episode but it's at

at one point or another in our lives we've made decisions or we've not made decisions with the sole motivation being that we didn't want to let someone else down that we didn't want to disappoint someone else that we didn't want to make someone

else feel uncomfortable and frankly I don't think that's the way we should be living our lives living in fear of letting someone else down being reluctant to make a change that could possibly

disappoint someone else living in fear of making someone else feel a bit uncomfortable because of something we decide to do or not do.

And so I want to take a couple minutes here to talk about a mindset that I think will be quite liberating and will help you realize that it's okay to let someone else down in life it's okay to make a change that inevitably is going to do that.

And in fact I think the basis for the mindset that I'm going to talk about here is that I think if you're not disappointing someone at some point in your life you're not living a life that's true to you you're not so this will be a rather quick

episode on this topic but I think it's necessary for all of us people pleasers in the world it's a lot of us obviously you know it's necessary because hands down if you're truly living your best life

if you're living exploring if you're putting your thing down flipping it in and reversing it if you're bringing your milkshake to the yard you know you're going to be making changes in your life you're going to change you're

going to need to make changes in your life you're going to be like me right you're going to go from listening to creed and double popping your collar to listening to house music and only wearing ripped jeans and

you'll go from hitting the club on Friday and Saturday and Sunday and probably Thursday yikes to you know meditating and hitting a farmer's market or a pumpkin patch instead right you'll go from having a certain type of personality that you date a certain kind of friend group that you hang out with a certain

driver certain appetite in your career to something completely different a complete 180 you can go from pursuing a career in law to make a living from taking pictures of your feet like I do with my quotes you know you can go from having a type I only date you know six foot three dudes I only date petite short girls I know I'm a boobs guy I'm an ass man

whatever right your taste will change as you grow your preferences will change as you grow your values will evolve as you grow as you grow your goals will this is all inevitable right the this is like it's mandatory this is a required assignment of you that you're going to and you have to change

right and that's what I think you should be pursuing in life you know this if you listen to the podcast and because of this because of everything I just mentioned it's inevitable because of change that you're going to disappoint some people because you're going to change some of your relationships you're going to find yourself moving away from certain people moving towards others you're going to find yourself saying no we need used to say yes

and so on and so on that is all indicative of change in life and alongside of that it's inevitable that you're going to let some people down or I'm actually suggesting here that you need to you you should be letting some people down at some point in your life

and I say all that because if you're not if you don't find yourself ever disappointing someone I'm a little bit skeptical that you're actually embracing change in your life and to my point here like a broken record we all need to change we all need to change you need to change I need to change we all need to change

because that is the ultimate key to becoming the person you want to become of course right getting what you want achieving what you want to achieve you have to change to it to get those things

and I think we probably agree on that right it's nothing earth shattering I'm sure you in your personal life have many examples of changes that you've undergone literal changes maybe where you dated someone and then you dated someone else or relationship ended and so on and so forth

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