Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no BS episodes dedicated to helping you be the person

you are meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

Alright, welcome to episode 250. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who this the podcast of a dude who likes to lift weights and share feelings

apparently, apparently that's my bio. I'll take it though, you know, I'll take it. That's who I am. I'm just a dude being a guy trying to be helpful, sharing my perspective on a variety of topics and mindsets.

And you know, I say it all the time that I think it's absolutely hilarious that I give dating advice or that I even wrote a book about it because yeah, I certainly don't think I'm an expert. It's why I waited. It's why, you know, because I'm 14 years old, why I waited until episode 69 to even do a single episode on dating or relationships.

But you know, recently I've just been really, really forward by your feedback on the mindsets that I that I write or that I talk about specifically on dating and relationships. So I'm just going to keep dishing it up. I'm going to keep dishing out my perspective on dating and relationships and being single and everything in between.

Yeah, personally, I've grown a lot and evolved and matured from my own life experience here from being a, you know, 20 something, hey you up, want to see my aquarium kind of dude to now be in more of a, I don't know, a pumpkin patch, farmers market dog park. Tell me what makes you tick kind of kind of guy.

Or at least most of the time. So anyway, just wanted to say thank you for all the feedback and all the questions you send me. My Instagram is kind of blown up in the past couple of months and I can't respond to everyone.

But for the most part, I see all your messages. So please keep them coming. Please keep the requests coming. Please keep the questions coming because when I do see something that that is a, that it's a big vibe in my mind or like a powerful question, I'll do an episode on it.

And that's what I've got for you today because the other day someone sent me a message of hey case, do you believe in the concept of right person wrong time.

And I was like, oh shit, yep, that's a vibe. I need to do an episode on this. So I've got some feelings on this. I've lived this. I've seen it. I have a mindset here that I think will be helpful for you.

Or at least that it'll give you something to think about so that you can come to like your own definition of peace as it relates to this topic.

And you hear it a lot as well. It's the, you know, he was the right person, but it was the wrong time. She was the right person, but it was the wrong time right person wrong time right person wrong time either the wrong time for them or the wrong time for you or the wrong time for both of you, whatever it is.

Right, but I will say here allegedly allegedly the wrong time for you or both of you. And I think, you know, if you've if you've grown and dated and you know, live the life, you've probably come across this.

This, this thinking that you can find someone who's great, who matches what you what you want and you match what they want and you vibe together.

But the timing is just wrong either his or yours or hers or both yours timing combined like it's you you meet someone and you you think they're amazing you both get along you click like wow like this was unexpected.

I wasn't looking for someone and you know voila this happened it feels right with this person, but then the whole timing thing like taps you on the shoulders like hey sorry, but this just isn't going to work out.

Right timing or context there circumstance maybe that person is you know still hung up on a past relationship and isn't ready for commitment yet or maybe you're the same maybe you were in a like a really toxic relationship and you're working on healing from that and learning from that and you just weren't expecting to meet someone right away.

Or maybe you know practically one of you or both review your just like heads down 100% dedicated in your career or your profession or your creativity or whatever it is you're doing your putting in the hours you're working on elevating yourself that are studying or whatever you name it something that is very time consuming mentally and physically.

So it's like whatever it is you're just like oh you know this kind of sucks because this is right person wrong time wrong time because there's something holding you back or something holding that person back holding you back in the sense that it like won't allow you to move forward or that person to move forward to like to go in further to commit in a sense or at minimum just to like to consider the next person.

So you consider the next stage of wherever you're at in that relationship and I think this is pretty relatable right.

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