My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy

patterns and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition

coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. I am as always overjoyed to be with you today.

So on today's podcast podcast the title of the podcast thus far is

recitisa, settling and finding your joy. So I am one of the what 50 million

plus people in the world who listened to the story of Risa Tisa

on Devon viral on Tik-Toc on Valentine's Day or around Valentine's Day.

And so we're a month of some change out from her story

and making rounds around the world.

And in case you're not here on the story,

if you've somehow missed it,

it's been, she's been on Good Morning America in all kinds of places.

She told the story of how during COVID she married a man who ended up being a pathological liar.

The name of her series was who's affected I marry. But then 15. a or getting pregnant at some point and what it looks like what happened to the

dissolution of the relationship. And of course when I heard that story I heard the

story of many of us. If not to that extent and to that level, but being in

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