My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and

Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

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Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. Today we are going to be talking about the secret ways that you can be love bombed.

So typically when we think about love bombing

in the realm of narcissistic relationships,

we think about getting flown out,

we think about bags and roses for no reason, we think about, you know,

10 hour, 12 hour dates, being taken to the finest restaurants and all those things and just being told we're the most amazing person ever and that there's never been one before

So it has ever come close right those types of things

However with there being different types of narcissists and different types of

narcissistic abuse, there is a secret undetectable way that we can be love-bomed

if we are empathic caring folks who typically are known to be

fixers where we can be very much attracted to narcissists in our lives and before and be connected to them in intimate relationships

before we even realize that there's a problem and also because of the way that

this love mommy works we will still personalize the problems that are happening in this relationship

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