#226: Negging is Not Normal (and how to get away from it)
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 9 January 2024
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Shena talks about what is negging, how it shows up in relationships and affects our self esteem, why we normalize it, and what to do to change this pattern.
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| 0:00.0 | My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out. |
| 0:21.0 | This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever |
| 0:26.4 | means necessary. |
| 0:29.4 | Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and |
| 0:34.3 | resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and |
| 0:38.4 | then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns |
| 0:44.3 | and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and |
| 0:48.7 | Trauma Specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:58.6 | Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. I hope that you are doing so well wherever you are. Today's episode, late, is today's episode the first episode of the year? |
| 1:08.0 | I believe it's the second. |
| 1:10.0 | Yes, it should be the second episode of the year, but I still feel like the year is just getting started because it is. |
| 1:16.0 | So I just want to send you all New Year's blessings. |
| 1:21.0 | Depending, I know some people are actually just starting their new year and now. |
| 1:25.8 | They have had extended vacation, so you are just getting back into the habit of life. |
| 1:32.1 | And so welcome back, my loves loves and I hope that you had a great break. So today's episode I'm going to be continuing our winter series for those of you who are joining me either for the first time or you are |
| 1:44.9 | starting with the latest episode, but you've missed the last couple. I am doing a four-part |
| 1:51.1 | series that is going to be focused on helping all of us love addicts get ourselves |
| 1:55.7 | together for 2024 and to finally break the patterns of all the things that we that may |
| 2:01.5 | get in the way all the road. And so those four series are me months, |
| 2:06.1 | so there's going to be a series of episodes talking about our relationship with ourselves. |
| 2:09.7 | We are currently in that month right now. We're going to have a mama month or a mama trauma |
| 2:14.4 | month where we're going to be talking about mother trauma and family wounds. We're |
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