221. How to forgive yourself when others won't
Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach
4.9 • 914 Ratings
🗓️ 4 June 2023
⏱️ 53 minutes
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On this episode I talk all about self forgiveness when someone wont forgive you. What to do when you have apologised and are not forgiven, how to move past that, how to be kind to yourself and truly get to a point of forgiveness to yourself.
I also cover how to forgive yourself for how you have treated yourself in the past.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, my beautiful bins, happy Monday and welcome to the episode of today. |
| 0:04.9 | So today's episode is all about how to forgive yourself, especially when others won't |
| 0:11.3 | forgive you, and also how to forgive yourself for stuff you've done to yourself. |
| 0:16.1 | Okay, so this is all about your mending that relationship with yourself. |
| 0:20.1 | And often, when you do something that |
| 0:22.4 | hurts somebody else and they don't forgive you, you then become really, really hard on yourself. |
| 0:28.9 | And a lot of people find it very hard to move on from that. It's almost like they're holding |
| 0:34.5 | on and they need that forgiveness from that other person |
| 0:37.8 | in order to be able to move on and push past. |
| 0:40.7 | So I'm going to speak to that specific scenario as well. |
| 0:44.6 | You fucked up, you've done something that person doesn't forgive you. |
| 0:48.6 | Or maybe someone misinterpreted something you did and they cannot forgive you for something |
| 0:52.4 | that there was no ill intent |
| 0:54.5 | but they won't forgive you how to have that experience how to move through it so then you can |
| 1:00.8 | truly be like I'm at peace with that and I can truly stand here and say I forgive myself and I'm |
| 1:09.3 | okay with that and there's's steps in between that. |
| 1:12.6 | It's not just saying, I don't give a fuck. I don't care. It's actually the opposite of that. Okay. |
| 1:16.5 | And I'm going to be talking through what those steps are so you can be way more at peace, |
| 1:20.9 | way more at ease. Because if you're always eating away yourself, thinking, you know, just beating |
| 1:26.3 | down on yourself, thinking that person doesn't |
| 1:28.6 | forgive me so I cannot move past this, I can't forgive myself. You're always going to have that |
| 1:32.5 | in the back of your mind. And then when you approach different situations with different people, |
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