#179: When Sex Is Not Good
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2017
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
"I know that orgasm should not be the main goal of sex, but I am disappointed that I have never experienced it."
"I can’t say that I feel enthusiastically about sex. I think about it, and would like to have it more often, but we do not."
"My husband and I have been married three years and we have never had good, or even frequent sex."
These are comments that we receive from women all over the country. So what do you do when sex is not good? Listen in as Juli, Linda, and Hannah tackle this difficult (but common!) question.
Guests: Linda Dillow & Hannah Nitz
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, welcome to Java with Julie. I'm a Mission Coffee with two familiar voices to you, Hannah Nitz and Linda Dillo. |
| 0:08.0 | Thanks for joining me. |
| 0:09.0 | Excited to be here. |
| 0:11.0 | Yeah. Are you excited about the topic today? |
| 0:14.0 | I am. Good. Yeah, this is one of the questions that we get asked the most often. |
| 0:20.0 | You ready? The question is, what do I do if someone? This is one of the questions that we get asked the most often. |
| 0:21.2 | You ready? |
| 0:27.3 | The question is, what do I do if sex is not good in my marriage? |
| 0:29.5 | Definitely our most popular question. |
| 0:29.9 | Yeah. |
| 0:32.8 | And it gets asked in many different forms. |
| 0:37.4 | It can be newlyweds who just say, we don't know how to make all this work or sex is painful or it can be |
| 0:38.4 | somebody who's been married for 20 or 30 years and who says I've never liked it it's never been |
| 0:43.9 | good it's always felt like a chore so we brought in the experts today you looked at linda when you |
| 0:53.3 | said that you're two are the experts. |
| 0:55.1 | Hey, you're an up-and-coming expert. |
| 0:57.5 | I'll take it. |
| 0:58.3 | Yeah. |
| 0:58.9 | I follow close behind. |
| 1:00.1 | Yes, you do. |
| 1:01.4 | Yeah. |
| 1:01.9 | So, Linda, do you hear this question often? |
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