Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

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All right, welcome to episode 177. Hello my friend welcome to a new episode of new mindset who this with one heck of a title. Wow, yikes dude and obviously I

Title this for you know on purpose you know, sorry gotta gotta do something to get those views. It's an easy idea for a podcaster. But despite the title, I'm really excited to do this episode. It's a dating

Available for you to see me. I'm really excited to do this episode. It's a dating of a couple of times and I'm excited to be in a relationship with you.

You know, sorry gotta gotta do something to get those views. It's an easy idea for a podcaster but despite the title, I'm really excited to do this episode. It's a dating episode in case you can't tell dating relationships. And you know, I've done a couple of those over the course of 176 episodes and I always get great feedback. So I figured I would do another and you know I titled this episode confessions of a fuck boy not as me saying that I am or was a fuck boy, but you know, I will

of course admit I've never been perfect nor has anyone really and I think we've all had our fuck boy moments or fuck girl moments. This definitely goes both ways. You know, those moments where we weren't our most honest selves when it comes to dating and relationships moments where we weren't honest with ourselves on, you know, what the heck we were doing, answering that text at 3 a.m. or sending it, you know, or you know honest with someone else and saying what you were thinking or doing or what you're

intentions were everything, right? You know, I'm certainly not passing the blame baton here, but we've all been fuck boys to some extent, you know, I definitely have sure why not throw my hands up have been there. And you know, after dating around for call it the past 12 years and you know, several serious relationships in there, I've learned a lot about this topic dating and relations. I've learned a lot about fuck boys honesty feelings. What to look for.

Red flags the whole thing, you know, the things I think that have prevented me from settling down, finding someone to settle down with, finding the person I deserve, finding someone who deserves me, the things I've noticed in my friends that have prevented them from doing the same, you know, what I've learned from God dating app culture, hitting the club consistently for the past two years. And, you know, so I was thinking about all that. And I sat down this morning to really think this through.

I've been wanting to do another dating episode because personally, I think really think I've had kind of a light at the end of the tunnel type realization here kind of an aha moment when it comes to, you know, me, myself, my expectation of others dating relationships.

And so I sat down this morning to write an outline on what I've learned. And on how I can take that and help you give you perspective that can help you have better relationships to get help you date and a healthier way.

And most of all, to help you take back your freaking power. That's it to take back your power in dating and relationships because after all, I think I think this is the problem.

I've found that when it comes to dating and relationships, the biggest thing we do that ends up with us, you know, getting hurt, there's a pointed let down confused cheated on even like you name it is we give away our power.

We give away our humanity. We give away the things that make us us. We give away our power.

And for sure, obviously I recognize that dating is honestly inherently about that. It's about trust and giving away some of your selfishness to someone else.

But that comes with time. It comes with time. But if you found yourself listening right now, if you found yourself in the dating,

Mary go round date after date after date, let down by someone disappointed in how you've been treated the number of times you've been ghosted, the number of times you've felt unsure about what the heck you're doing.

And the direction you're heading, I think I've got some solid advice for you in this episode. And you know, I think it's solid advice, solid perspective on how to handle the fuck boys in your dating life.

And again, that's kind of a catch all for just like BS in dating the BS you encounter and the people you date, the relationships that start the relationships that never happen like everything in between.

So with this episode, I sat down and outlined this and specifically I want to present to you what I've learned on how to take back your power in dating and relationships, how to take back the respect you should have for yourself in this context, how to take back your power so that when you see a red flag, when you feel something is wrong, when you feel that something just doesn't sit right with you, when you feel that, hey, what's going on in your gut, your intuition that you do something about it.

Because I found that the majority of times that I've been disappointed in a relationship or okay, you know, I admitted disappointed someone else, maybe it came when that intuition is not acted on when I or someone else didn't act on the way they were truly feeling and instead they stuck it out because they were in love with the idea of potential.

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