Welcome to the Shaline show. Shaline is a New York Times best-selling author celebrity fitness trainer and

Obsessed with helping you live your dream life. Hey there. Thanks so much for joining me on this episode of the Shaline show

Today, I want to address one of the most common comments usually not a question

It's usually a comment like a definitive statement. I hear from people when I talk about goal setting or

Achieving things that you want your life and just being more and wanting more and getting support from people

The number one comment I read or hear from people is I don't have those kind of people in my life

So in this episode, I'm going to help you find them

Who are the people that you spend the most time with because those are the people who influence the way you talk

The way you dress the way you think the way you spend money the potential that you know that you have

It's true for kids too if you put a child on a team where the players are a year or two older than they are

that child will play up

And in much the same way that if you put a child in a classroom where the children are younger and they're not as experienced or

On a team or even a dance class where the children are younger and not as experienced that child will

regress

And the same is true of us, you know, we're very influenced by the people who around us

They influence the way we think they influence our ethics our choices

What we see as normal and what we see as possible

You know wasn't too many years ago that I knew of millionaires, but I didn't have any friends who were millionaires

I had friends who were like wow, I heard that guys rich, you know like I those kind of friends, but I didn't have any friends who were millionaires

And this isn't like about millionaires, but like that concept when I first started reading self-help and reading books about success

Well, you know, I'm gonna like move towards that, but that's like not even the realm of reality because I don't know anybody who's a millionaire

So that's not really like in the realm of my reality

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