#152: When You Like Someone as a Love Addict
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 23 August 2022
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
What does it look like to be balanced and still available after you've been working on your love addiction symptoms.
In this episode, I share 3 tips for those who are starting this journey building relationships in a different way.
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| 0:00.0 | My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough, or persuade them by hook or crook to get |
| 0:14.4 | more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:19.9 | just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means |
| 0:27.3 | to me. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or insumission disorders |
| 0:34.1 | and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others. |
| 0:39.6 | Every episode we will talk about advice we can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow |
| 0:45.2 | in your software. I'm Shrinella Shay, love edition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:53.6 | Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I'm so excited to have you |
| 0:59.9 | with me today. Today, we are going to be talking about what to do when you like someone as a love |
| 1:08.3 | addict. So, the framing for this is if you have struggled with love addiction, you have been |
| 1:15.1 | working on your love addiction patterns, you have been in recovery, you are closer to or you're |
| 1:21.5 | feeling you're having more symptoms of being securely attached and you are entering new romantic |
| 1:27.4 | relationships for the first time with this new clarity, with this new sense of self. And just |
| 1:34.1 | ready to do things differently this time around. And so, I'm going to talk about three things |
| 1:40.0 | for you to keep in mind to do to feel balanced as a recovering love addict in a new relationship. |
| 1:49.4 | These are also going to be things that you've already partnered with someone. It's going to help you |
| 1:52.9 | kind of make sure that you're balanced there as well, but this is going to be really just good |
| 1:57.2 | proactive things for you to do. I want to also say just to be clear that these are going to be |
| 2:05.0 | things that are important for you to do. If you are partnered with someone who is healthy and someone |
| 2:10.4 | who is available securely attached or maybe they're in recovery for love addiction, love avoidance, |
| 2:17.3 | but they're actually doing the work and they are working on their attachment styles and they're |
| 2:21.4 | working on their communication styles that they are self-accountable, not that you are trying to |
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