My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough and persuade them by hookah crew to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already

there just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about

healing or intimacy disorders, members of trauma and building a healthy relationship with

first ourselves and then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today

to break unhealthy patterns and grow your self-worth. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach

trauma specialist. Let's begin. Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's

Hill. I hope that you are shiny and thriving wherever you are and that you are doing well and

feeling taken care of and feeling loved and if you're not feeling that way I hope that you're

able to step aside and spend some time with yourself to figure out what is it that I need, what is

it that I'm yearning for, what is it that I'm craving and give it to yourself and if you're with

partners, friends, family that are healthy and loving and want to love you that you advocate

for yourself that you ask that you learn how to communicate those needs to others and let them

in and let them love you too. So with that said today's episode we are talking about what to do

when you like someone as a love avoidant. This is my two-part series where I'm talking to those

of us who may be entering new romantic partnerships with partners as previously identified love

addicts and love avoidants. I am talking primarily to people who have been doing the recovery work

for this who have actively been working on challenging your love addiction patterns specifically

on your love avoidant patterns specifically and doing the root trauma work that causes it and now

you're at a place where you are stable and you're entering into this newer arena of doing

relationships differently. These are your first go rounds and you are wanting to know how do I

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