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Black Girls Heal

#150: Feeling Whatever You Need to Feel About Your Past Relationship

Black Girls Heal

Shena Lashey

Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-improvement

4.81.8K Ratings

🗓️ 9 August 2022

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

When relationships do not work out (Friendship, romantic, familial, or otherwise) we can have a variety of emotional responses: neutrality, intense longing and love, hatred and rage, and any combination in between.

In this episode, we talk about how you are allowed to have whatever emotions you need to have about this relationship in this season.

 

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0:00.0

The Miss Pat Show is Emmy-nominated after just one season.

0:03.9

The critically acclaimed smash hit B.T. Plus original series returns with the hilarious

0:09.1

new season of grown folks comedy. This season Miss Pat works through the pain of the past to be

0:14.4

the best wife, mom, and sister she can be. That isn't me, she plans to stop laughing or cussing.

0:20.7

The Miss Pat Show, season two, streaming August 11th only on B.T. Plus,

0:25.8

to learn more of his at B.T. Dot Plus. B.T. Plus streamed black culture.

0:35.6

My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get more aware

0:46.3

of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

0:50.9

and just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

0:57.5

means necessary. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about

1:03.4

healing or intimacy disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship

1:08.0

with first ourselves and then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply

1:13.4

today to break unhealthy patterns and grow in your software. I'm Sheena Lache,

1:18.6

love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

1:24.8

Hello, hello, hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill.

1:30.5

So on today's episode, I want to talk about how it is okay for you to have whatever feelings

1:38.8

you need to feel in this moment, in this season, about previous relationships. This came up

1:46.9

because I was thinking about and I had a conversation with someone and I came remember who

1:52.6

who I was talking to to to share the context, but I was talking with someone about a previous

1:58.4

relationship that they've been a part of and how they have all this stress around the fact that

2:03.2

they still have feelings for them. And that is such a common question that I get from people

2:11.9

from my students is it's either one or two things. Either they are really upset because there is

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