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Do You F*cking Mind?

143. Why independence will increase self love

Do You F*cking Mind?

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9914 Ratings

🗓️ 21 February 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

This episode breaks down the difference between independence and being guarded and having your walls up. I explain how true independence includes vulnerability and accepting support. I explain why that is, and I give you a few ideas for how you can increase your independence regardless of what kind of relationship you have in your life.

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0:00.0

Hello, my beautiful beans and welcome to today's episode. So this episode is all going to be about

0:04.5

independence, the importance of independence, why it should be a non-negotiable in your life,

0:09.4

how to get more independence. And I'm also going to be really breaking down what independence

0:13.7

is and what it isn't, because I think that sometimes the lines are a little bit blowed when it

0:18.5

comes to figuring out what people mean by independence or what it means to be independent.

0:24.5

I think that a lot of people think that it might clash with vulnerability and needing to rely on someone or someone having your back and needing that.

0:34.3

There's some differences here.

0:35.9

So I'm really going to clarify what I mean by your need

0:39.7

for independence and why it is crucial no matter where you are in life, no matter what situation

0:44.2

you're in, whether it's financial independence, emotional independence, et cetera, et cetera.

0:49.7

So before we get into that, not much to update you on my life thus far.

0:54.3

Everything's going swell and dandy.

0:56.8

I wanted to get straight into the brain fact of today.

1:00.2

So it's a pretty interesting syndrome.

1:02.0

It's called erotomania or it's also known as de, okay, just bear with me.

1:07.1

It's also known as de clarimbalts.

1:13.6

D separate word clarimbolts syndrome.

1:18.9

So this is categorized as a subtype of a delusional disorder in the DSM-5.

1:24.4

And it's this psychiatric disorder slash syndrome, which is character, this is so interesting.

1:28.4

It's characterized by this delusion that someone of a higher status, like a social status, normally a celebrity or just someone with a lot of power,

1:33.9

is in love with you. So you just got this delusion that they're in love with you. And normally,

1:38.7

the people that have this delusion are typically really shy and quiet, typically dependent women.

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