My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crooks to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders

and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow

in your software. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. So it is the first month

of May officially and it is Mother's Day season. So last week's episode, well actually the episode

for this week was supposed to be last week's episode. Today's episode I am talking about,

I don't even know how I'm gonna title it actually but we are talking about steps for you to take

if you find that you have a tumultuous or conflictual relationship with your daughter.

And this is for women of all ages whether or not your daughters two or three and you already

noticed some detachment or some high irritation with her or if your daughter is an adult or your

daughter is a teenager and maybe last week when I was talking about conflicts with daughters was maybe

the first time that you maybe considered that maybe your irritation with her might be more about

your trauma versus about her personality or that motherhood can be hard. Maybe somebody forwarded

this podcast episode to you and if that's you welcome typically on this podcast I talk about

healing from intimacy disorders like love addiction and love avoidance because I believe that

our relationships the health of our relationships and how we show up in relationships is a really

big mirror on how we see ourselves and so we talk a lot about self-love and self-identity and also

the patterns of love addiction and love avoidance and love deprivation and what that can tell us

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