#139: Grieving The Relationship You Never Had With Your Mother
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2022
⏱️ 29 minutes
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If you have felt sad or disheartened because you haven't been able to build the relationship you want with your mother, this podcast is for you. Let's talk about how to grieve your relationship with your mother even if she is physically present.
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| 0:00.0 | My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crooks to get |
| 0:14.4 | more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:19.9 | is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means |
| 0:27.3 | to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders |
| 0:34.1 | and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others. |
| 0:39.6 | Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow |
| 0:45.2 | in your software. I'm Shrinella Shay, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:51.6 | Hello ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. So today's episode I am talking |
| 1:00.7 | about grieving, not having the relationship that you will want with your mother. At the time |
| 1:06.2 | that this episode is coming out is the week before Mother's Day. And right now there is a season |
| 1:12.8 | of Mother's Day content that I have been sharing on TikTok. I've been doing a mini series |
| 1:19.4 | on working through your mother wound trauma. I actually recorded an episode that was supposed to come |
| 1:26.9 | out today but it's going to have to come out next week because the original topic for today was |
| 1:33.3 | about how to work through the attachment that you may have with your daughter. So there are a lot |
| 1:41.2 | of us who are mothers of daughters and we may feel irritation with them. We may feel even some |
| 1:48.8 | animosity and resentment towards them. No matter how much we love them, we might even feel |
| 1:54.0 | some jealousy for some of us. But for a lot of us we can even find that it's harder for us to attach |
| 2:00.4 | to our daughters compared to our sons and not knowing what to do with that. Not knowing if that's |
| 2:06.8 | just because of who our child is or if it is something else. And my what I'm going to be sharing |
| 2:16.0 | next week is that I think a lot of the detachment that many of us have who are mothers of daughters |
| 2:22.8 | with our daughters is more about the trauma that we experienced that stops us from being able to |
| 2:28.0 | connect to our own little girl inner little girls. And by way of that because we don't have that |
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