My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crooks to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy

disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your software. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Hill. So today I am talking with you

about four different ways to exit the cycle of love deprivation which is one of our intimacy

disorders that we talk about here at Black Girls Hill. Now I have already recorded this episode

but I wanted to come back here at the beginning before you listen because I wanted to give some

clear descriptors of what love deprivation looks like. I talk a lot about the cycles of love

deprivation this episode. I talk a lot about what it looks like as far as examples in the material

sense and how we can be the depriversels from like the luxuries of life and the pleasures of life.

I also talk about some of the ways that we can deprive ourselves from the intimacy that we desire

in our relationships with other people and then of course you know the four ways to get out of it.

But even with me sharing that I wanted to come back and talk about specific descriptors so that

if this is a new phrase to you, if this has been the episode that you have been waiting on so many

of y'all especially in the text community when I pulled y'all and I was asking what is it that

you want to hear more about this topic along with another topic which I'm not going to tell you

because I feel like if I tell you y'all are going to be like you know scratching like very very excited

to hear about it but it's coming it's totally coming but this is definitely number one women

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