My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crooks to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders

and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow

in your software. I'm Shrinella Shay, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello ladies and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I hope that you are

thriving and shining wherever you are, however you are. Remember that you are beautiful and worthy

and valuable and I need you to receive that and own it and believe it, believe it, believe it,

and walk in it and hold that truth today. So today's episode I want to talk to all of the women

who currently or in the past or who are healing from trying to prove that you are different than

other women when it comes to potential romantic partners. And also my hope is that this episode

actually touches women who don't know that you're doing that because I feel like that is most often

the case. I feel like those of us who don't know that we are self-abandoning in this way,

it's not even on our radar and we may feel that we are very balanced in this area and so my hope

in me sharing what I'm going to share today will help you, if you relate to it,

have a little bit of awareness of ways that you may have been self-neglecting yourself

or putting yourself in relationships and in connections with people who don't value you

with people who may be evaluating you.

Thanks for listening to this week's podcast. Before we get started let's take a small break

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