#121: When You're Afraid to Try Again in Relationships
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 16 November 2021
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
Have you been procrastinating putting yourself out there and making yourself available to get to know others? Then this one is for you. It's time to stop living in fear and actually create the life you want for yourself.
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| 0:00.0 | My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get |
| 0:14.4 | more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:19.9 | is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means |
| 0:27.3 | to do. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast, where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders |
| 0:34.1 | and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others. |
| 0:39.6 | Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow |
| 0:45.2 | in your software. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:51.6 | Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I hope that this finds you |
| 0:59.6 | well and that you are thriving wherever you are, however you are. So in today's episode, I really |
| 1:08.4 | wanted to talk to those of us who have been taking a break from building romantic partnerships |
| 1:16.7 | specifically and really working on getting your my right, getting your soul right, |
| 1:26.4 | getting your spirit right before you get out there and try again. And I want to really validate |
| 1:33.3 | that experience. It's hard building relationships, it's hard to put yourself out there, |
| 1:41.9 | it's hard to be out there and be out there in these dating streets and put a lot of hope and put |
| 1:50.8 | a lot of energy into potentially meeting a partner and potentially finding someone that you feel |
| 1:58.4 | could be a confidant, a companion, a soulmate and I really want to validate that and you could |
| 2:08.0 | probably feel the end coming. Something that I've noticed that happens with the women that I work |
| 2:14.4 | with and the women in our community is that they slash we will take an extended period of time |
| 2:24.9 | to be ready, quote unquote, to be ready to put ourselves out there to meet people, to be open to |
| 2:33.7 | love and relationships and is a concern that I have because what it seems like is that sometimes |
| 2:45.1 | what can happen is that we'll take the period of self-reflection and self-healing to using it as |
| 2:54.0 | a defense mechanism, to using it as a way to cope and push away the spheres that we have of being |
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