My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook-a-cruple to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there

is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means

to them. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy

disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then

others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your software. I'm Shrinella Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Thanks for listening to this week's podcast. Before we get started let's take a small break to say

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Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I hope that this finds you

well in thriving wherever you are. So I am on my batch record day. I have started recently

batch recording podcast episode so that I can pass it off to an amazing podcast team to take it over

for me and I have been trying to record an episode that really shouldn't take me that long

for maybe five times now over the last two hours and so what I'm just going to allow myself to do

is just to talk to you as an audience and either this will be one of the episodes that I choose to

go out or this is going to be something just for me. Something just here on the side but first I want

to say thank you so much for all of the feedback that y'all gave in regards to the three mistakes

series that I did last month. If you're just now joining this podcast I did a series for four

weeks where I talked about three mistakes that I made as a love addict and a love avoidance

and when I had dating relationships and then also when I had committed partnerships and just how

these intimacy disorders specifically showed up for me. I didn't cover the whole gamut but I talked

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