Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on

purpose because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated. Okay here's one of the

many reasons why relationships are so hard, but this one, I don't believe

you have thought about before because I don't think many people create a dialogue about this. I have to explain it. It's a little

complicated. No it's not because people are crazy or because of our

upbringing or because we get bored or because date night, I mean date night, because we're

lacking date nights or because attachment styles and love languages.

Yes, of course all of those things make

relationships very difficult but what makes relationships difficult is that

we as life happens change correct and as we change and grow and evolve and of

course we're supposed to and if you're not there's something wrong because as humans we are evolving

curious growing creatures and that is normal. Now the reason why relationships are

hard is because most of us don't invite each other on that

ride.

So many people think that they are doing life with their partner, but they're actually not because they only share and communicate the stuff that's happening on paper or how their day went,

but they're not actually sharing their inner journey.

And I know it sounds a little abstract, but hear me out. So life happens and now we're changing and growing and you

know as we change we slowly kind of become different people and you know our humor may be the same

our personality is maybe the same and at the core we are who we are and you know

You're you're the toppings on your pizza may not change when it comes to what what your favorites are but

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