If you to stop,

to stop, go back and give it a listen.

When women speak up, they get attacked by not just by men, but by other women as well.

If you don't have anything to say, like you said what you said before, if you don't have anything

good to say, don't say anything. I am Lillian and you're listening to the future.

I think it's it's really important to regulate people's behavior in online spaces

because people just generally tend to be more aggressive and more horrible

when there is a screen in front of them and you know you're not you're

not there as a person you're there as a name just as a text you know that anonymity sort of gives you the

license to be more horrible to other people.

And I think it's really important to set those rules and say,

no, you're not allowed to say that these things don't happen,

you're not allowed to to undermine or this is a

feminist term gas light I don't know if you're familiar with that but gas lighting

basically means like you know you you say that the person who's

who's expressing the negative sentiments is crazy or like they're overreacting

they're being hysterical which is another word that women often hear being accused of being hysterical.

So you're not allowed to do that to your fellow women when they're expressing pain

just to look after people and give people a safe space.

I think all that you're saying I totally believe in, and it's just that, I don't know

what compels somebody to invalidate another person's experience, the human experience, and I don't get that. It just shows a really low level of empathy.

And it's funny, it's like when it happens to you, then all of a sudden you understand.

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