Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 25 January 2024
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren!
20:14 - The Question
22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing
41:13 - Shandy Debrief
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| 0:00.0 | It just seems like you're talking almost like about whether you're going for Netflix or Hulu. |
| 0:04.4 | It's like nothing. |
| 0:07.6 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:11.6 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. |
| 0:13.9 | Hello, Andy. |
| 0:14.7 | Hello. |
| 0:15.2 | How are you today? |
| 0:16.0 | Doing okay. |
| 0:16.6 | Doing okay. |
| 0:17.1 | What's going? |
| 0:17.7 | What's happening? |
| 0:18.5 | What's happening is it's caller day. And it's been a minute since we've done a |
| 0:23.0 | caller session actually and we're excited. We have a very enthusiastic caller with us today. We are today |
| 0:30.9 | joined by Lauren. Thank you so much for joining us. Hi guys. How are you? Do you mind giving us your age, the ages of the people |
| 0:39.1 | in question, your location, whatever you're comfortable sharing, and your story, please? |
| 0:44.3 | Sure. So I'm 29 years old. I'm calling from Brooklyn, New York. The guy that I'm calling about, |
| 0:51.7 | he is 30 years old, and he's also from New York. And the other person, |
| 0:57.8 | I don't know how, I mean, she is pretty relevant, but I'm not sure about her age, maybe like 26. |
| 1:03.5 | All right. Let's hear what's going on. So back in Feb 2022, I went on a date with a guy I met on Hinge. |
| 1:10.7 | And the date went really well. And we instantly just, you know, it was really fast to a point where after a month, he was like, you know, I don't think I have the time that you deserve, blah, blah, blah. He basically, I saw him backing out, so I put him on the spot, and he used that excuse to get out of it. And I was like, you know, that's fine. You know, no harm done. Bye-bye. I didn't contact him. He didn't contact me. But then a month later, he was like, hey, I was wondering if you'd like to go for a walk, you know, we're in the same neighborhood. And I was like, I wasn't interested, but I did sign a lease on a building that was like right |
| 1:46.1 | in front of his building. So I was like, I'm going to bump into this guy. Might as well just, |
| 1:50.4 | you know, take this walk. So then on that walk, he profusely apologized about, you know, |
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