Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

The next time you compare yourself to somebody, maybe it's another parent in your circle,

maybe it's a coworker, maybe it's one of your industry peers, maybe it's the other woman at the gym, maybe it's the other woman at the gym, maybe it's the guy who

seems to always be having this business success again and again.

Whoever it is is you can pay yourself to in the moment, maybe you hear

some news about that person or of course you see them on social media

presenting their wins which is all anyone really seems to do.

Remember this, remember this, my friend, okay?

We only compare the good, don't we?

Don't we?

Don't we go, oh my gosh, she's so fit, or oh my gosh, he just has all this amazing success after success or that mom just has it

altogether when it comes to her scheduling and having this cool career too.

We only compare the good which is nonsense. It makes no sense, but it does serve in making you feel terrible. Am I right? I was speaking to a friend of mine recently, who is a speaker, and she was comparing herself to another speaker who seems to work with a lot of brands that

my friend would love to collaborate with.

And I was like, okay, so you see this other speaker and she's here and she's there and she's doing these talks, blah blah blah.

And that's all you see. You only see what's presented, what shared, the size of the crowd, the feedback, how great she looks, etc.

But I'm like, you don't know what's going on with her kids.

You don't know what's going on with her health. You don't know what's going on with her self-esteem.

People can show up and present one way. It doesn't even mean they're being disingenuous or dishonest.

But we choose what we present.

It's utterly selective.

But we are not comparing anything else,

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