Your Attachment Style Is Affecting Your Stepmom Experience with Thais Gibson
The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast
Jamie Scrimgeour
4.9 • 723 Ratings
🗓️ 4 May 2026
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, with Thais Gibson, we dive deep into how our childhood conditioning shapes our adult relationships. From attachment styles to the subconscious filters we wear every day, understanding these dynamics can be a game changer, especially in the stepmom dynamic.
What's your attachment style? Knowing it can unlock the keys to your emotional needs and triggers.
Let's explore how to rewire those patterns and better meet our needs.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Stepmom, you feel like you're doing everything right, but yet you still feel an edge in your own home. |
| 0:04.9 | I need you to hear this. |
| 0:06.3 | More stepmom advice isn't what's going to change this, because most of what you're being told |
| 0:11.1 | sounds really good in theory, but it doesn't hold up in real life. |
| 0:15.3 | So I created a free ebook for you with the 12 things that other stepmom coaches don't have |
| 0:19.6 | the guts to tell you. |
| 0:21.3 | And I know this because for a long time, I resisted saying these things too. |
| 0:25.4 | Because they're hard truths. They're hard conversations. |
| 0:28.6 | But once you know them, it will explain why when you followed that boundary tip, everything got |
| 0:33.6 | worse. Or why when you disengageengage it actually created more conflict and resentment? |
| 0:39.0 | Why, no matter how many talks you have with your partner, you guys can't seem to get aligned on the |
| 0:44.1 | kids. And why even though you're trying so hard, you still feel on edge. This is the stuff that most |
| 0:51.7 | stepmom tips are missing. Go grab the guide at www. |
| 0:55.4 | jamiescrimjure.com forward slash freebie or comment tips on any of my Instagram posts and I'll |
| 1:01.3 | DM it to you. It's also linked in my show notes. |
| 1:05.0 | www.jamy scrimger.com forward slash freebie. This is the stuff that most stepmom tips are missing. |
| 1:12.1 | Would you say in order to truly go on a personal growth journey and you really do need to know your attachment style? |
| 1:19.3 | It is probably in the top three most efficient things you can do for your healing journey. |
| 1:24.7 | What do you mean we don't know our own needs? |
| 1:27.0 | A lot of people, they don't have a |
| 1:28.7 | road map to be like, oh, these are my needs and I have to design my life according to them. But then if you |
| 1:32.2 | don't know your needs, you can't go communicate them to people in relationships. And now that's |
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