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The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

7 Years Older Than Her Stepdaughter: The Reality Of Being A Young Stepmom

The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast

Jamie Scrimgeour

Education, Kids & Family, Self-improvement

4.9723 Ratings

🗓️ 11 May 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Should Dads get 50/50 custody even if they don't know their child's doctor? 

Why the stepmom should not be considered a 'nanny' 

The headaches you'll avoid by having a very detailed co-parenting agreement 

Should you be upset if your partner helps the bio-mom by taking the kids more? 

How to communicate with your partner if you need to take a step back or disengage 

 

Jamie and her husband Darren give their unfiltered thoughts on these topics on this week's episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast. 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You know that feeling you get when your husband casually says, oh, when the kids are staying

0:03.6

on next to night this week, and suddenly your whole mood changes? Or you get a text on the X,

0:08.6

and you can't focus on your work because you're replaying the wording trying to figure out

0:11.9

if it was passive aggressive or not. Or you're lying in bed exhausted, but mentally replaying

0:16.4

a conversation from earlier, wondering if you handled it wrong. That's the stuff no one talks about,

0:21.9

how step family stress slowly starts to take over your brain space, your energy, your peace,

0:27.2

your relationship, your entire day sometimes. And most stepmoms think they just need to calm down

0:32.7

or stop being so sensitive. But honestly, you do not need more guilt. You need a better process. And that's exactly

0:39.4

why I created the step memory brand. This is the exact framework I use with my private coaching

0:44.5

clients to help them stop reacting emotionally to every little thing and start responding in a way

0:49.0

that actually protects their peace and improves their relationships. So instead of spiraling for two days after something

0:55.5

happens, you know how to move through it. You feel more grounded, more secure, less emotionally

1:01.0

consumed by stepfamily dynamics, and you stop losing so much of your life to overthinking.

1:06.7

If you haven't checked out the stepmom rebrand yet, go to www.w stepmom rebrand.com.

1:11.9

This is the exact framework I use with my private coaching clients, now available to you anytime.

1:17.6

www.com.

1:22.2

So there's a lot of talk right now about dads who want 50-50 custody but they don't know their kids shoe

1:28.7

size but they are wanting to parent their kids half the time whoa whoa whoa I'm going to

1:34.1

totally disagree I think that is totally wrong and that's my opinion and I stick to it

1:38.3

the argument is the reason why these dads want 50-50 is because they want to pay less child

1:43.0

sport is it just to not pay as much or is it I can't pay as much because I'm expected to pick up at 3 o'clock?

1:49.8

She's like when child support is too much, the solution was to turn the new baby mama into the nanny.

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