This is heal, survive, and thrive with your host Stephanie Lynn. This podcast is for anyone who has

ever gone through a painful gut-wrenching, breakup or divorce that wants to not only know how the hell to

heal from that mess, but also want the tools to be able to rebuild a life better than they

even had before. There are no victims here. So if you want to hear the

real truths about what you should and shouldn't be doing to move on and then stay tuned.

Hello, hello, welcome back. We are going to dive into so much stuff this week. I swear, I have

been trying to get a mic for the podcast and it's driving me

absolutely insane. Like I am so not an IT person. I absolutely hate figuring out technology, figuring out

software. I am so impatient that I just like, I don't know, I feel like I either erratically just buy a bunch

of stuff and then I'm trying to figure out how to use it and read the directions. And anyways,

it's an IT nightmare sometimes trying to figure all the stuff out. But I have a, I have a mic here

that I've been using for a while and I really, really like it. So I think I'm just going to keep going with this one. But I'm telling you guys,

let's talk about, let's talk about breakups. I feel like I have been on the phone lately.

It's so funny because there are just weeks where I'm on the phone with clients and there's

like these themes that happen. I swear,

I don't know why it happens. It's just right now, I swear to God, everyone is pretty much going

through the same thing. Like, you know, every situation is different, but I'm dealing with a lot

of breakups right now. I'm dealing with a lot of people who, let's just be

honest, are still kind of in love with into their ex, even though they blatantly know that

they probably shouldn't be. Some, you know, it's hard to even face the fact that maybe this

person isn't good for you. I hear a lot of people just like

solely blaming themselves, not really looking at the other person. I feel like there's always these

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