Hey guys, welcome, welcome back. I am excited about this. I, so listen, for years, years and years and

years, I have gotten this question. And my own personal experience is I've had friends who

met the love of their life in their early 20s and literally before 21 and are married and still married to this day.

Now, I'm never ever talking about the quality of a relationship because we don't even know

what goes on behind closed doors.

Like obviously our own personal friends, we know their relationships like fairly well, but

we still don't know every little detail.

So I'm going to say this that the number of years doesn't really matter. It's

obviously the quality of the relationship. But for the sake of this podcast episode, we're going to

talk about why it takes so long to find the right person. So whether you're dating, whether

you're single, whether you're divorced or whether you've been married a couple times. Like, you're just like, what the hell? Like, I've been dating forever. Why haven't I met this person yet? I'm on my second or third divorce. Like, what is wrong with me? Like, why is this keep happening? Or maybe you're looking at some of your friends who honestly can just like walk into the sunset with their

soulmate that they've had since they were freaking 19 and you're like okay what what's the problem

like why am I not finding that person I do really really believe though that some people we all

have different life lessons from me my life lesson was

relationships for some of my friends their life lesson was not relationships

so I think we have to kind of start at that point like this might just be your

life lesson is relationships and maybe there are some things no not even maybe there are some things

that for you have come very easy very naturally and to your friend who you know has been with the

same person forever and they're madly in love and they have a great relationship hasn't you know

maybe it's something that she probably struggles with that you don't struggle

with, things that she's gone through that you haven't really experienced. Like if I honestly

take a look at all of my girlfriends, the ones that have been with their partner for

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