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Everything Is Energy with Cathy Heller

You're Not Abandoning Anyone, You're Finally Choosing Yourself

Everything Is Energy with Cathy Heller

Cathy Heller

Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality

4.98K Ratings

🗓️ 18 June 2026

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

You've spent years abandoning yourself to keep the peace. The guilt you feel when you finally speak the truth? That's not a sign you're doing something wrong, it's a sign you're finally coming home. Real emotional healing doesn't start with gratitude journals or "just moving on." It starts when you stop hiding the parts of yourself you buried to be good, easy, strong, or lovable. In this conversation, Cathy Heller and Hope Firsel explore how healing from divorce, relationship change, grief, and personal transformation can become a path back to your true self when you're willing to face what you feel rather than bury it. This is for you if:  You're navigating life after divorce or a major relationship change  You feel guilty every time you tell the truth about what you need  You're exhausted from keeping the peace at your own expense  The Universe has a crush on you! Turn on your radio and hear the most gorgeous music.If you are just getting started, learn how to tune your radio at Cathy's Circle. Until midnight on June 19, it’s $19 for 19 days.  • Join Cathy's Circle ⁠https://www.cathyheller.com/cathys-circle/⁠  • Follow Cathy on Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/cathy.heller/⁠  • Want to work with Cathy? ⁠https://www.cathyheller.com/start-here/

Transcript

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0:00.0

There's so much guilt associated with truth.

0:03.8

But when you have the courage from love to share what's true,

0:10.8

my friend Mark Grove says liberation is then a two-way street.

0:14.4

It's never a one-way street.

0:16.6

And I don't know what the future holds, like, who I'll meet, if we'll repair.

0:22.2

I don't know.

0:22.8

But what I do know is who I am today is a version of me that is so much more available

0:31.8

and connected and willing to be, to be in the truth versus the discomfort of trying to manage all the reactions people could

0:46.4

have to the truth, including my own and therefore wanting to bury it, which I think is,

0:51.4

it's terrible because I think a lot of people live with a lot of that.

1:00.1

Hey guys, it's Kathy Heller. Welcome back to Everything is Energy. Guess what? This is the first time

1:05.3

that I'm recording in my house. I love this. It's so much fun. I was inspired by Chloe in Wonderland because she sits on

1:13.5

this like wraparound couch. And I thought, I love when things get to be easy, right? I feel like as

1:18.8

human beings were so married to the idea that things have to be hard. Why? Why can't you just

1:23.3

be sitting barefoot, cross-legged on your couch with somebody that you love and having the best

1:27.9

conversation. Yes, sign me up. Okay, so this is historic. First time we're doing this. And I'm really

1:34.2

excited because my friend and coach and colleague Hope Versal is here. Did I pronounce your last

1:40.3

name correctly? Forsell. Let me say that again. We can edit that. My friend and coach and colleague, Hope Firstell, is here. Can you say Hope Letts for cell? Lutz Lutz L. Let's, Lut. Let me say that again. And I'm so happy to do this because today my friend, coach, and colleague, Hope Lutz, Versel is here. And she's so cute. And really, she's brought so much into

2:04.4

my world in the last few months of having these deep, deep conversations with her. She is a coach

2:10.4

that meets men and women at phases in their life where they are ready to make the changes that

2:16.0

they know they've needed to make for a long time.

2:18.6

She specializes in relationships.

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