You Have Selective Empathy

The World's First Podcast with Erin & Sara Foster

Dear Media | Wishbone Production

Female Founders, 750325, Leisure, Business, Aging, Nutrition, Advice, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Infertility, Comedy, Life Advice

4.5 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2025

⏱️ 92 minutes

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Summary

This week, Erin and Sara catch up and discuss the decision to have kids, unsolved mysteries, home decorating tips, FOMO, and more.

Executive Producers: Erin Foster, Sara Foster, and Allison Bresnick

Associate Producers: Montana McBirney and Olivia Geffner

Audio Engineer: Josh Windisch

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a dear media production.
0:03.2	This episode was produced by Wishbone Production.
0:06.0	Hi, I'm Otto.
0:08.1	Welcome to Ellen Sarah's podcast.
0:14.3	You know, I'm going to just be honest with the audience.
0:18.0	I was really planning on taking time off. You know,
0:23.0	I was planning on taking time off. And then I find myself live on like a tech zoom this morning.
0:29.7	Now I'm here, which, you know, you got to bring it. You're not happy about it. You're not
0:35.4	about it. No, I'll tell you what I wanted to be doing right now. This was my plan. I was about as I was envisaging in my head how I was going to put the Thanksgiving leftovers together. So I had this whole thing in my mind about how I was going to do a brisket sandwich on sour dough. And I was sitting there thinking, do I have jalapinos? Do I have
0:57.2	pickled onions? Do I have mustard? Do I want to throw a little avocado in? I was literally... And then
1:03.4	Montana's like, why aren't you on? And then Montana goes, are you ready to record a solo? And I go,
1:07.9	Oh my God. I will jump through this computer and strangle you.
1:12.5	Ask her, ask her what my vibe was. I mean, I kind of heard it in the background. It wasn't great.
1:17.7	It was not great. I regret it in some ways. Okay. Well, this is huge for you to regret it.
1:23.1	I do regret it because I respect Montana. It's also not her fault that we have to record a podcast. I mean, this is the life we chose. I would love to un-chose it. I've said to you many times, hey, let's find something to quit. Pick any of them. Let's quit one of them. Yes, you are always trying to find ways to cook and clean, which is what you do best. No, I just would love a little bit of peace. So it's why I've
1:48.5	chosen to take having another baby off the map right now, because I cannot add another thing into
1:54.2	life. It's just, have you told the pod that you're putting paws on baby? I think I have. I think I have said it. If I haven't, it's not like a secret or anything,
2:04.6	you know, I'm just, I'm not in the headspace to embark on that. I'm not in the headspace to
2:10.2	be nauseous for three months, which I was so sick. And we're moving into our new house.
2:16.4	I started packing today.
2:18.2	We're like writing scripts now for season three.
2:21.1	It's just too much.
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