You don't get to CHOOSE how someone loves you w/ Brad Pickett
Rebel Weight Loss & Lifestyle
Cristy Code Red Nickel
4.3 • 725 Ratings
🗓️ 27 September 2023
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
This week’s topic isn't directly related to weight loss, health, or nutrition.
But it could be impacting your ability to stay on track.
I know because this topic is something I didn't actually wanna get into. I felt resistance and I didn’t wanna know the truth.
At the same time, I DO want to learn, because when it comes to relationships, I don't wanna make the same mistakes I've already made.
To help me help you with this, too, I invited special guest Brad Pickett onto the podcast to talk about choosing how someone loves us.
As in, when it comes to love, we want to CHOOSE how other people love us.
We want to change them to be who WE think they should be.
When it's clear they aren't gonna change (or if they do, it's just to get us to shut up about it, so they resent us while only pretending to change), we get mad at THEM...
When really, we're the ones who put these expectations on another person that they didn't ask for.
Listen, there's nothing wrong with asking for what you want.
But expecting someone to change who they are to love you how you say you want to be loved is trying to choose how someone loves you.
And your expectations could be the source of fights, arguments and other problems in your life.
Tune into this episode for more help understanding why you don't get to choose how someone loves you...including what that means, why it's true, and how accepting it will set you free.
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| 0:00.0 | Have you guys heard that saying, we don't tell you what you want to hear. |
| 0:03.9 | We tell you what you need to hear. |
| 0:05.6 | Well, this podcast is the perfect example of that. |
| 0:09.7 | It's going to be a heavy one, but it's going to really help you. |
| 0:12.8 | So stay tuned. |
| 0:14.5 | I'm Christy Code Red, and you're listening to Rebel Weight Loss and Lifestyle, |
| 0:18.5 | where we believe food holds the power to heal or poison |
| 0:22.3 | and we believe our society has been misled regarding proper nutrition and weight loss. |
| 0:27.3 | You're in the right place if you're looking for some straight up truth because I'm here to shed |
| 0:31.9 | light on the lies and brainwashing that has taken place over the past five decades. |
| 0:36.8 | Thanks so much for listening. |
| 0:41.5 | Welcome back to another episode of Rebel Weight Loss in Lifestyle. I'm your host, |
| 0:45.2 | Christy Coddread, author, entrepreneur, retired professional boxer. And I cannot think of a better |
| 0:51.0 | person to have on the podcast for this specific subject really you're becoming like |
| 0:56.5 | my favorite podcasting person to brad but brad thank you for coming on and uh talking to me about |
| 1:02.8 | this today so glad to be here this is always fun and you know what i like about podcasting with |
| 1:09.6 | you is just kind of like we're just talking, |
| 1:11.6 | you know, just hanging out and talking and talking about cool stuff, though, that helps other people |
| 1:15.7 | and it makes it more fun. |
| 1:18.6 | Well, I've now, every time we're together, I always bring my notebook because I always have |
| 1:23.1 | something that I need to take notes on and to write down ideas that we get and ways that we |
| 1:27.4 | can say things and different podcast ideas and things we need to take notes on and to write down ideas that we get and ways that we can say |
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