You don't actually know what your future self wants | Shankar Vendantam
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🗓️ 30 January 2023
⏱️ 21 minutes
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"You are constantly becoming a new person," says journalist Shankar Vendantam. In a talk full of beautiful storytelling, he explains the profound impact of something he calls the "illusion of continuity" -- the belief that our future selves will share the same views, perspectives and hopes as our current selves -- and shows how we can more proactively craft the people we are to become. Stay tuned after the talk as Modupe shares a clear-eyed and empowering perspective on your future self’s feelings.
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| 0:00.0 | In my first year of business school, way back in 1999, I took a required leadership course |
| 0:07.1 | where our final assignment was to write a two-page memoir detailing what we would be doing in |
| 0:13.7 | 2011, 10 years after graduation. My professor had us bring in two copies, one to turn in and one to keep. And yes, I still have mine. |
| 0:26.2 | My memoir says that by 2011, I would be married with three kids, living in West Africa, working for UNICEF. |
| 0:35.5 | It's no surprise to me that this was my vision. I knew very few people at the time |
| 0:40.9 | who were in their mid-30s, without kids, and I had done some work in the nonprofit world before |
| 0:47.0 | business school. So all the little details just made sense. But 10 years after graduation, |
| 0:54.1 | my life looked nothing like that, and my life today is |
| 0:57.6 | even more different. I live in my hometown, New York City. I'm a business school professor. I've been |
| 1:04.4 | married, and I'm happily child-free, which is such a reminder that it's so hard to know what the future will hold. |
| 1:13.3 | So why is it so easy for us to assume that who we are today is the same person will be 10 years from now? |
| 1:26.9 | I'm Madhupacanola. This is Ted Business. |
| 1:30.0 | Our speaker today is Shankar Vedantam, journalist and host of the podcast Hidden Brain, |
| 1:37.5 | a show that explores the unconscious patterns that drive human behavior. |
| 1:42.4 | In this talk, Shankar explains why we believe our future selves will share the same views, |
| 1:49.3 | perspectives, and hopes as our current selves and shows how we can more proactively |
| 1:55.3 | craft the people we are to become. |
| 1:59.0 | Then after the talk, I'll share how we can be wrong about our future |
| 2:03.0 | emotions too. But first, a quick break. When I was 12 years old, I fractured my foot playing soccer. |
| 2:18.3 | I didn't tell my parents when I got home that night, |
| 2:21.3 | because the next day, my dad was taking me to see a movie, a soccer movie. |
| 2:27.3 | I worried that if I told my parents about the foot, they would take me to see a doctor. |
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