I amla your host for this journey. I was a hopeless love a holic but just could not get my love to work.

Then after a series of heartbreaks and deep heartache, I finally got clear about

what love is and what it is not. I want to share some of what I've learned about lover holism.

Welcome to the R spot, a production of Shandaland audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Greetings and welcome to the R spot, the place we come to talk about relationships,

all kinds of relationships.

The good, the not so good, the fun, and the difficult.

Whether it's a relationship with your

love, your spouse, your friend, your mom, or yourself.

Today we're taking a different look at your relationship with yourself

because we know that your relationship with yourself,

because we know that your relationship with yourself

is the foundation for all other relationships.

And the question on the floor today is, would you date you?

Would you date you?

I mean, are you the kind of person that you would want to be with?

And if so, why? not why not and I guess you

can look at the last few dates that you've had or the last few relationships that

you've had and look at how it worked out and how you

behaved and what made it healthy what made it fun and what tanked it You know because your relationship with yourself is so critical, it's so

important and that is the, let me say the training ground for how you teach other people how to treat you.

It helps you see how you treat other people, how you treat yourself in the company of other people.

And so very often we want someone to come into our lives and bring us something we think we

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