Women's Sexual Response
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 27 March 2017
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
Episode 6: Women's Sexual Response
About this episode
Today we're talking about women's sexuality and sexual response.
- Why do we have so many misconceptions about women's sexual response?
- What do we know about women's sexuality that might some women might not realize is normal?
- How can we help ourselves (and our husbands) better understand our sexual response?
From the Bible
What does God have to say about women's sexuality?
1 Timothy 5:14: "So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander."
2 Samuel 12:24: "Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba, and he went to her and made love to her. She gave birth to a son, and they named him Solomon. The Lord loved him."
Song of Songs 5, especially verse 5: "I arose to open for my beloved, and my hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with flowing myrrh, on the handles of the bolt."
Song of Songs 7, especially verse 10: "I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me."
Resources
The Forgiven Wife, Learn to Embrace Your Sexuality
The Forgiven Wife, Love Like a Woman: Should Your Sexuality Be Like Your Husband's?
The Generous Husband, Orgasmic Massage
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives. |
| 0:12.3 | We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:15.8 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage? |
| 0:20.1 | I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. I'm Chris Taylor |
| 0:23.7 | from the Forgiven Wife. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. |
| 0:36.2 | Today we're talking about women's sexuality and sexual response. |
| 0:40.3 | Our churches haven't always done a good job of helping us understand our sexuality as part of God's good design for marriage. |
| 0:47.3 | Girls launch into womanhood believing that it is their job to say no and to manage men's sexual desire. We grew up hearing good girls |
| 0:55.8 | don't, without hearing good wives do, or sex is awesome. Meanwhile, our culture gives us messages |
| 1:03.4 | about how our sexuality is supposed to look. Movies show us women who experience spontaneous |
| 1:09.0 | and instant desire and arousal. |
| 1:11.6 | They experience climax easily through intercourse, and if our sexual desire and response don't look like that, we might think we're defective. |
| 1:19.6 | All four of us have written about sex is a gift that is for wives as much as it is for husbands. |
| 1:24.6 | And we've all said that God designed us as sexual beings. |
| 1:29.2 | Yet I would venture to say that some of our readers have really struggled with these ideas. |
| 1:33.7 | How is sex a gift and what does it even mean to be sexual? |
| 1:37.6 | So here we are with messages that our sexual response is supposed to look a certain way |
| 1:42.2 | and that it is somehow ungodly or not a good |
| 1:46.0 | Christian woman thing to be sexual. So no wonder sex and sexuality can be such a source |
| 1:52.0 | of confusion and tension in so many marriages. Is it any surprise that when our husbands |
| 1:57.0 | ask us what we would like in bed, We often don't even know how to answer. |
| 2:01.8 | So let's tackle our first question. |
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