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All Out in the Open

Will God change my orientation?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 March 2021

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Charlie and Ben have a conversation about trying to change their sexual orientations through spiritual practice and conversion therapy.

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0:00.0

Welcome to questions from the closet. I'm Charlie Bird and I'm Ben Shalatti. Each episode

0:07.6

we discuss a question that we commonly get asked as LGBTQ Liarity Saints. We are not trying

0:11.6

to answer this question or come to a consensus but simply sharing our perspectives. Today's

0:16.1

question is, will God change my orientation? Charlie and I are not Charlie Leigh-Deevers and we

0:20.7

share many opinions and life experiences. For example, we both love going to orientations.

0:25.8

However, there are some pretty big differences. For example, I had an orientation today and then

0:30.7

did not. Which is sad because I really do love going to orientations. I did too. There's so many

0:34.2

things to learn and especially if I'm like excited to do something and then I get there and like,

0:38.7

oh yeah, teach me everything, orient me. It's also like you get paid but you don't have to do

0:43.3

anything and they like give you treats often. Like, here's a pamphlet and a candy bar that goes

0:48.9

with it. I did not get paid for today's orientation. Oh, it was free. How was it? It was pretty good. I

0:54.8

liked it. It's for my internship, for my grad program. Like my dream orientation would be like

1:00.4

to get hired at Disney World and have like a three day orientation. It's actually called Disney U.

1:06.0

All right. We're going to move on quick because we'll get distracted real quick when we get

1:11.6

Ben talking about Disney. Oh my gosh. Okay. So we would like to provide a variety of voices and

1:16.3

perspectives but today we're joined by nobody. Today we're talking about a pretty sensitive topic

1:20.5

and when we do that sometimes we feel like it's better for it just to be us and just so

1:24.6

if anyone takes the heat, they can be us. Yeah. Also, I was thinking about like the things I'm going

1:30.5

to say and how scary the things I say would have been to like 22-year-old me. Yeah. And I just

1:36.2

want to say things in like a sensitive way. So like 22-year-old Ben wouldn't be freaked out.

1:41.5

Yeah. As far as credibility is concerned, we are not theologians. We're not religious or spiritual

1:46.2

leaders but we are same sex attracted and we've both spent a lot of time and effort seeking for

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