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All Out in the Open

What are the pros and cons of coming out?

All Out in the Open

All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet

Lds, Lgbt, Religion & Spirituality, Transgender, Christ, Church Of Jesus Christ, Society & Culture, Lgbtq, Gay, Christianity, Latter-day Saint, Faith, Mormon

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 March 2021

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Ben and Charlie are joined by Stacey Harkey for a discussion of the pros and cons of coming out.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Questions from the Closet, I'm Ben Shalatti, and I'm Charlie Bird.

0:06.8

Each episode we discuss a question that we commonly get asked as LGBTQ Latter-day Saints.

0:10.6

You're not trying to answer this question or come to consensus, but simply sharing

0:14.2

our perspectives.

0:15.2

Today's question is, what are the pros and cons of coming out?

0:19.2

Ben and I are not terribly diverse, and we share many opinions and life experiences.

0:23.1

For example, we both came out to our best friend first.

0:25.7

However, there are some pretty big differences.

0:27.5

For example, I came out to my best friends in a park in Provo, and Charlie came out to

0:31.6

his best friend, while parked in Provo.

0:34.4

You know how cops patrol the mountains and areas to make sure everyone's safe?

0:38.2

I did not know that.

0:39.2

They're like spotlight people making out in their cars.

0:42.6

I did not know that, actually.

0:43.6

It looks sketchy, because I was with my cousin Rachel, it was four in the morning, and

0:47.3

I'm like sobbing in the passenger seat, coming out to her, and it was just funny afterwards.

0:52.7

People think we're having a saucy moment in here, and I'm just like, I'm sorry.

0:57.2

I'm gay.

0:58.2

And she's like, Charlie, it's okay.

1:00.5

I love you.

1:01.8

Yeah, I came out in Columbus Park.

1:04.1

We just sat on some grass, meeting my two best friends, so I wrote about a ton, talked

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