Why Your Sex Life Isn't as Good As It Could Be

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2025

⏱️ 70 minutes

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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily and Shroter, we’re joined by Dolly, a renowned sexological bodyworker featured in Cosmopolitan and Hustler, for a deep dive into somatic sex therapy and the true path to embodied pleasure. Dolly opens up about her healing journey after a sexless marriage—how breathwork, mirror work, and intentional self-touch led her to reclaim her body and reawaken her desire. Together, we unpack what it means to stop performing and start feeling, breaking down the difference between orgasm and climax, and how to explore your body with curiosity, not pressure. Timestamps: 00:01:08 - Healing Journey: Sex & Pleasure 00:07:17 - Post-Divorce Healing & Femininity 10:57 - Embodied Sexuality & Vulva Mapping 14:10 - Vulva Mapping & Frustration 20:06 - Embodiment, Self-Touch & Vulva Hug 23:50 - Vulva Hug Meditation Practice 32:03 - Vulva Anatomy & Trauma Release 43:41 - Reclaiming Your Vulva: Love & Healing 46:16 - Expanding Orgasmic Potential 01:00:51 - Q&A & Vulva Hug Meditation Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let’s get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let’s text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

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0:00.0	You know I'm all about tools that help you feel more confident and connected in the bedroom.
0:04.0	So if finishing too soon as something that ever crossed your mind are your partners,
0:08.0	let's talk about Popstar delay spray. Dr. Scott Lyons, have you used it?
0:13.0	One of the things that often happens during sex is you're concerned, will I last?
0:18.0	How much longer will I last? And you're so focused on that, you're not with your partner having good sex.
0:23.6	And if you have a little bit of delay spray,
0:27.1	knowing that it will last a little bit longer,
0:29.3	you can invest more deeply in the intimacy
0:32.0	you're having that it's so much better.
0:34.1	This is what I love,
0:34.9	because there's a lot of delay sprays out there.
0:36.7	But Popstar Lay Spray is a full line of performance boosting products from Popstar Labs created by our friend,
0:41.3	urologist Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, and he's literally devoted his career to helping people
0:46.3	have better sex.
0:47.3	Yeah.
0:48.3	So you're off-or delay spray.
0:49.3	I'm off-or-or-dlay spray.
0:50.3	I don't want anyone to worry if it's anything that's going to help them last longer and feel good.
0:56.6	So you can focus on my body and not your own in the moment.
0:57.4	That feels great.
0:58.7	I mean, I want you to feel pleasure too.
1:00.6	But what I love is it doesn't take away the pleasure.
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