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Skinny Dipping

Why You Resist What You Want Most: The Psychology of Self- Sabotage, Cognitive Dissonance & Finally Going for Your Dreams

Skinny Dipping

Kela Rose

Education, Self-improvement

4.9793 Ratings

🗓️ 8 July 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

I get it... why is it always the things we desire the most that have the most resistance within our lives? Lets dive in <3


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Today we are going to be talking about one of my favorite paradoxes of all time.

0:05.1

Why do we have so much resistance for the things that matter most to us?

0:10.0

Why do we have so much resistance and stuckness and self-sabotage around the dreams that we really desire?

0:19.8

Why do we feel like, oh, like all we need to do is like move

0:23.9

our body and get this energy out and like reset our nervous system and yet we have so much

0:29.2

resistance to going to the gym or going to that yoga class or that workout class? Why do we

0:34.9

have this resistance even though we know it's what we want, what we desire, and what is good for us?

0:47.3

This fascinates me so much, and if you have felt this way before, you are not alone.

0:52.0

This is a human thing.

0:53.9

So I'm Kayla Rose. This is skinny

0:56.5

dipping. It's skinny dipping summer. I know for my people in like Australia and New Zealand,

1:02.4

I know you're like, it's not summer. And I'm like, I'm sorry. But here is the energy of skinny

1:06.2

dipping summer. We're passing it to you. It's more creative. It's more connected. It's more expressive

1:13.8

than ever and just prioritizing really what lights us up. That's what it's about. And today I want

1:21.4

to make sure that you can overcome this resistance and this self-sabotage so you can actually

1:26.9

live out your God-given purpose.

1:30.2

Like the gifts that you are given, you are not given these dreams and these gifts and these wishes for no reason.

1:37.8

It's not coincidental.

1:39.4

It's genuinely because you are meant to carry these things through to the world for other people as well,

1:46.6

for the greater collective.

1:48.0

What is up, guys?

1:49.1

I'm Kayla Rose, your host.

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