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🗓️ 21 November 2024
⏱️ 49 minutes
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0:00.0 | Welcome to this episode of Motherkind. It is me, your host, Zoe, and we are proudly sponsored by Stoker. |
0:15.1 | This is the show that's going to help you navigate the massive challenges of modern motherhood |
0:19.0 | by bringing you world-leading experts to give you a new toolkit for new times. |
0:24.6 | Now, I don't know about you, but this time of year, creeping towards December, that I start to feel panicked and rushed and behind. |
0:32.4 | And everyone else seems to have presents already, which is just wild to me because I usually do all my Christmas |
0:38.4 | shopping in a panic on the 20th of December. Everyone seems to have plans for new years that I'm speaking |
0:44.1 | to. I have none, zero idea what I'll do. And I just feel behind. I also have both my girls' birthdays |
0:51.2 | in December. And so it is hectic. And I feel like my mental load, |
0:56.5 | just the number of things that I've got to do with the girls at home, it just quadruples. |
1:03.3 | And I'm going to be honest, it is so easy for resentment to come in with Guy, my husband, |
1:09.4 | where I feel like I'm having the most intense, stressful |
1:13.3 | month of the year and he's not. So I've brought in an incredible guest today to help us. Her name |
1:20.4 | is Dr. Morgan Cutlip. She is a mental load and relationships expert. She's written one |
1:26.5 | incredible book on the subject and is about |
1:29.1 | to release a second. Now, I discovered Dr. Morgan on Instagram with this video that she made called |
1:35.0 | Why You May Feel Lonely, even when your partner is around. And that resonated with so many mothers, |
1:49.5 | 15 million, in fact. And in it, she talked about not feeling really seen, your needs, not feeling important to your partner, not being able to bring |
1:54.9 | something up without being met with defensiveness. And just this feeling of your partner, |
2:00.4 | just not caring about how you're really doing. And I was |
2:04.8 | reading the comments under that video and this feels like such a universal experience. So in this |
2:11.1 | episode, we talk about all those things and what she shares with us is gold. She shares the root cause of the inequality |
2:21.1 | that so many of us feel when it comes to the mental load, the domestic load being the |
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