Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

I was at the establishment hotel in Sydney and I was sitting with a CNN reporter and

attractive woman and she said how do how come I can't create the relationship that I

want and I just was so over it. I just looked at her and I

said let me ask you a question would you go out with you which is really the

fundamental question so I have a couple theories about relationships

that I think are really important and I use the same exact principles with my life.

First of all I will never work in a relationship and I don't think anybody should work in a relationship.

I think if you're working in a relationship something is not clicking, something is not right.

But if you bring your best and the person that you're with brings their best and

you celebrate your life together, then there's constructive interference, there's growth, there's energy.

If you're not at your best and you show up more than likely you're going to pick someone

or something apart, and it's better that you remove

yourself for a period of time and get back into your heart and present yourself at your best.

And so if you're not there and you need a mirror or a reflection,

then it's good to ask, am I missing something? Am I not seeing myself in some way?

And then there's a healthy conversation when you invited. But if you're not

invited to contribute your opinion, then it's better off that you don't, right?

So people always say I want a loving relationship,

but what they really want is happiness, really.

So we do these meditations to create love in our lives and it could be love in familiar relationships

with your siblings, it could be with your parents, it could be with your friends, or it could be with a significant other.

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