I just wanted to thank you for all the things that you have done with the Shaline show and with Build Your Tribe for me.

I feel so taken care of.

I have loved all of the suggestions that you've given on both podcasts and currently my husband and I are going through the marketing impact academy trying to change our situation as well.

But I found your podcast after a friend introduced me to Turbofire, which is my soulmate workout. I will do it just for fun and for stress relief.

But really the things that you've shared with me through the podcast are so actionable and really helped me to feel like I move forward each day with things that I would like my life to hold.

Thank you for all you do. You're a fabulous teacher and I appreciate you.

So why is it sometimes we're attracted to people who it just doesn't seem like they like us back.

Welcome to the Shaline show. Shaline is a New York Times bestselling author, celebrity fitness trainer and obsessed with helping you live your dream life.

All right, before we get into today's topic, I thought I would mention something I brought up on my Instagram stories this week.

So we are at I think like 40 million downloads of the Shaline show and 12 million downloads, a build your tribe, which is freaking insane.

I love you guys. Thank you for subscribing.

You probably noticed over the last I'd say year or so I had stopped in every single episode reminding you to leave a review for the show on iTunes.

Now a lot of you have been leaving voice reviews like to me by leaving a voicemail by going to my website, Shaline.com.

And I totally love that. I totally appreciate those. We've been playing them here on the show.

But I think what's happened is because of that people have stopped writing reviews, which is, you know, I mean, it's kind of a bummer because it's the reviews that help the show rank.

And the show ranking is what helps me to get the show sponsored and the show ranking is what helps me to reach more cool people like you.

Right. So to be honest, like what's in it for you if you review show?

Well, hopefully you feel good about yourself.

I would ask you the same question of what's in it for you when you tip your waiter or waitress or someone who's in the service industry.

What's in it for you is you feel like a good person because you're like this person is giving you great service.

And it's the right thing to do. You don't need to brag about the fact that you tip someone.

You don't need the waiter to know that you tip them. You know that you tip them and you know if you tip well or if you're kind of stingy.

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